A man’s ego is inextricably tied to how a man perceives himself, as well as how he would like others to see him. If he thinks of himself a certain positive way then he would like others to think the same. To define himself a man might draw from a variety of sources, such as sport, arts, academics, business … whatever, so that he has a particular sense of his own identity.
Most egos are fragile, so a smart lady works with her guy to help him have a healthy one so he can feel good about himself. Everyone needs some re-assurance. If you do not know how to keep your man happy, then something, or worse still, someone else might just do it for him. For example, another woman who was close to him, and that is something no lady in a relationship wants.
Below mentioned are some relationship tips on how to keep your man happy
Dress For Him
Some women dress to attract attention and then when they settle into a relationship they get sensible haircuts and let their style go. This is not at all understandable. You dress to catch him, so why not dress to please him? There are plenty of times when you have to dress for everyday living but here we are talking about an attitude to make an effort to look good when you can. Simply throwing anything on most of the time just to be practical can be a real passion killer.
Don’t Trap Him
Some men don’t domesticate well. They are happy to be in a relationship but don’t necessarily fit into the confinements of a tight domestic situation. It’s not that they want to be independent but may feel that they are losing some of their bigger lifestyle.
Everyone has to give in a relationship, and if a guy moves in with his lady he generally has to adjust to fit in with the tone of the house she likes to set. So if a guy is an outdoors type, for example, often he has to modify that to fit in. And then if his lady puts subtle pressures on him to stay at home to fit in with her home-based lifestyle, then he can feel trapped.
Trust and Communication
This has benefits for both guys and women, so … whenever you have an issue, or something that is bugging you, talk to your partner about it right away. If you let time go by, sometimes it can build into a larger problem and causes more trouble in the long run. It’s much better to talk about what you need to as soon as possible. Trust is a vital factor if you want to know how to keep your man happy.
Don’t Mother Him
In most of the cases if any woman does that for her guy she is not really looking after him. All she’s doing is preventing him from growing up. It’s not helping him, but hindering him. It’s different if he’s not a confident type of guy and you have to encourage him, but carrying him most of the time does him no favors at all.
Not all guys are totally self-sufficient, so nothing wrong with partners relying on each other for support. Both sexes benefit from having the other in their lives. And a man would welcome some help when he needs it, but would feel less of a man if his lady starts to mother him.
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